Many men have an extreme fear of loneliness, to such extent that they are willing to sacrifice their own identities for what they perceive to be love. This may yield many of life's joys that would be difficult to otherwise enjoy if alone, such as the realization of children. But ultimately, these men lead lives that are filled with regret and resentment.
Think of everything you enjoy in life. Your favorite show, your favorite band, your favorite food. These are things that collectively make you the man you are. Now put them all together neatly, in a figurative box, douse it in lighter fluid, and strike a match.
If you're a young man, the chances that this has taken hold of your life are less likely, but not completely impossible. Many guys that I knew through high school are now constantly reliving their glory days like a mental highlight reel of achievements, that end somewhere around 25 when they realized they no longer controlled their lives. She did.
With the average lifespan for most men exceeding 70, can you imagine spending 40+ years living in a way that you hate? Can you imagine 40 years from now, living a life devoid of any happiness? Would you want to raise a family in that state of mind? Could you?
The first step of getting what you want is knowing what you want. You need to then find a woman who wants those similar things. If she acts in a way that she is lowering herself to be in a relationship with you, RUN LIKE HELL. This is only the tip of the iceberg.
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