American Courtship's Slow Death

Think twice before you hold the door for that gorgeous woman, she may accuse you of toxic masculinity.

Current climates between traditional men and many modern American women prove to be very difficult to navigate.

Things men have historically done to display their affection towards women, including picking up the check, opening doors, or ordering for them at restaurants can now all be disqualifiers with many American women.

50 years ago, young American women revolted. Finding little meaning in their traditional gender role as family nurturer, American women demanded more. While nothing is wrong in wanting to live a more fruitful, meaningful life, this quest has pushed many American women to the extreme.

Vast numbers in modern America, especially Millennial women, now view exhibitions of courtesy on by men as an attempt to trap them in an archaic gender role they wish not to occupy.

Hold the door for her? She can do that herself! Offer to repair her stripped windshield wipers? She don’t need no man!

Is there really any American man who doesn’t do these small gestures of kindness, out of respect and love for a woman?

Providing value and protection has been a man’s identity throughout written history. Now, a man displaying these classic identifiers often suffers accusations of toxic masculinity!

Many American women would rather have a man pay for nothing, show zero signs of protective tendencies, and treat her more like a buddy rather than the target of his love and affection.

It is no wonder that thousands of American men each year travel abroad in search of foreign women with traditional views on dating and courtship.

Finding an American woman who holds traditional views can be harder than winning the lottery, but when you do find it, you’ll feel like a Powerball winner. There are still many institutions in America where these women can be discovered.

Many American men have taken to finding wives through church, social travel options, and via topical dating sites that group like minded individuals, such as Christian Mingle. Some American men simply do give up on their domestic searches, and choose alternative options including international dating sites like A Foreign Affair or Anastasia.

What is the answer? American men simply need to know their worth and settle for nothing less.

Do you identify yourself as an alpha male or a beta male? 

There’s nothing wrong with either, but an alpha male’s attitudes towards love and family surely will not mesh with a woman whose views do not coincide. Know what you want, find it, obtain it, and nourish the relationship. This is the only way to lead a happy life.